The Disease To Please

副标题: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome

ISBN: 9780071385640

作者: Harriet B·Braiker

出版社: McGraw-Hill

出版年: 2002-2-13

页数: 288

定价: USD 16.95

装帧: Paperback

内容简介

What's wrong with being a "people pleaser?" Plenty! "A fascinating book...If you struggle with where, when, and how to draw the line between your own desires and the demands of others, buy this book!"--Kay Redfield Jamison, bestselling author of An Unquiet Mind and Night Falls Fast People pleasers are not just nice people who go overboard trying to make everyone happy. Those who suffer from the Disease to Please are people who say "Yes" when they really want to say "No." For them, the uncontrollable need for the elusive approval of others is an addiction. Their debilitating fears of anger and confrontation force them to use "niceness" and "people-pleasing" as self-defense camouflage. Featured on NBC's "Today," The Disease to Please explodes the dangerous myth that "people pleasing" is a benign problem. Best-selling author and frequent "Oprah" guest Dr. Harriet Braiker offers clear, positive, practical, and easily do-able steps toward recovery. Begin with a simple but revealing quiz to discover what type of people-pleaser you are. Then learn how making even small changes to any single portion of the Disease to Please Triangle - involving your thoughts, feelings, and behavior - will cause a dramatic, positive and long-lasting change to the overall syndrome. As a recovered peoplepleaser, you will finally see that a balanced way of living that takes others into consideration but puts the emphasis first on pleasing yourself and gaining your own approval is the clearest path to health and happiness.

作者简介

哈丽雅特B.布莱克有逾25年的执业临床心理治疗和管理顾问经验。她创作了许多心理自助类畅销书，包括纽约《时代》杂志的畅销书《不懂拒绝的老好人》（The Disease to Please）和《E型女人》（The Type E Woman）等。

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